I'm back! Spencer and I spent the last three weeks in Arizona. We stayed with my three nephews and one niece in the Phoenix area for the first two weeks of our trip. Going from being a mother of one to a mother of five overnight was not easy for me. The first week was a lot of work, but ok. Four of the kids got sick the 2nd week, however, and that was hard. I was exhausted from getting up 5 or 6 times during the nights. Besides that and getting totally lost on the way to piano lessons, I think things went pretty well.
The three boys are all in school, so Spencer and Kaitlyn (2 1/2) got to hang out with me a lot. We ran errands, played with play dough, went to a fun park with ducks and geese, went to story time, and just played. They had a lot of fun together the first week, but had a hard time sharing anything the second week. Neither of them is used to having to share a lot and they're both used to getting more individual attention than they were getting.
Braden turned 6-years-old while we were there! To my relief, he chose a gumball cake out of his mom's cake book. It was simple to make and the hardest part was finding a store that sold gumballs and candy coins. It was supposed to be red, gray and white; but I didn't have the right food coloring and it turned out pink, purple and white. Luckily, Braden didn't seem to mind that his cake was "girl colors." Kaitlyn loved it!
I got a huge surprise when Alan called me at 6:30 on Friday morning and told me to open the door. He had flown down to surprise us! It was so good to see him and to have some extra help for a couple of days. I think that was the best surprise I've ever had. We took the kids to the building workshop at Home Depot on Saturday morning. They all got to make rescue helicopters. We had never taken Spencer to a building workshop before and he loved it. I was so glad that Alan was there though. It wouldn't have been as fun for everyone if I had to try to help all of them at the same time.
Nathan (9) didn't want to follow the instructions for his helicopter. He figured out how to put it together on his own and then spent a lot of time doing a fancy paint job. It was so much fun for me to get to know all of the kids better and see their different personalities.
You can't have a cousin get-together without a cute bathtub picture!
We had planned to go to the zoo on my last day there, but since several of the kids still weren't feeling great, we settled for a park and a movie at the theater instead. This was the only picture I got of everyone together.
I was definitely ready to be finished when Geoff and Tanya came home, but I'm glad I was able to help them out and get to know these kiddos better. We wished we lived closer to them so we could see them more often. I have a new respect for any parent with more than one child. It's a whole new level of busy. And, I don't know how they give each child the attention they need. It was hard for me to always be needed by at least two of them and yet never feeling like I was giving anyone the attention they needed. Props to all of you moms out there!